Raising a Pre-Teen Naturalista: My Thoughts


Pre teens are wonderful creatures
With their own sense of independence
and the "Know What I am doing" attitude. 

What I have learn from raising a preteen is to let then exercise that independence
with your guidiance.

When it comes to her natural hair, I give her a chance to try styles herself...
make her own mistakes... 
and while I am there to guide her...
I still let her do HER.



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