I read somewhere that when you wash your hair with water, do so using lukewarm water because hot water actually dries up your hair.
I like using a mixture of essential oils such as coconut oil and jojoba oil. I like coconut oil because it is very moisturizing and penetrates my hair shaft, reduces frizziness and promotes shine. I use jojoba oil because it moisturizes my scalp and doesn't evaporate like other oils. It is also a good moisture sealent. It is also known to strengthen your hair shaft, keeping it from being brittle. Try different types of oils to see which one works well with your hair.
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